Happiness is made for everybody. It makes no difference if you are gay or not. We are all different and we should learn to tolerate each other. Often gay people are scared to talk to their friends about this. They think that they will not understand. After you tell the truth about yourself some people might not like you anymore. You should not worry though because your real friends will never leave you just because you are in a gay relationship.
You were the only one without a girlfriend. Keep in mind that your friends already suspect that you are gay. It’s time to tell them. You will all feel a lot better. It takes a lot of courage to be honest but you have to do it. Your friendship will become a lot closer after you get out of the closet. They will understand that your relationship will make you happy. In the end that is the most important.
The news might come as a shock for some of them. Thus it’s better to let them think about it for a few days. Only your real friends will stick around after your coming out. This will be like a real friendship test. It’s important to stay calm and positive. Your new life is about to start!
Tell your friends that you are gay when you are ready to do so. You don’t have to force yourself. Don’t put yourself a deadline for coming out of the closet. Try to relax as much as possible. It will not be an easy thing to do. This is a secret you had for many years. You need to have a lot of courage.
Everybody looks for the perfect relationship. After they had enough time to accept that you are gay you can introduce your life partner to them. They will be able to see how happy you are. It’s important to let them know that you are the same person.
Your friends might think that you will not be the same person anymore. Show them that nothing will change. They will be glad to see that you are happier now. May be your life partner will become their friends too. This would be the best situation.
You are the same as the rest of your friends. Love is no different in a gay relationship. If you find it you should be grateful. People spend their entire life looking for it. Sadly not everybody is lucky enough. There for just because you are having a gay relationship you shouldn’t give up your happiness.
Telling your friends that you have a gay relationship might be difficult. Remember that you do this for your happiness. It’s impossible to be happy when you have something to hide.